"There is nothing more fictional than a peace where people can truly understand each other."
-Pain
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Friday, July 23, 2010
It's No Joke
"Forever"
Forever is such a strong word, and sometimes it is very overused. Many couples tell each other they will love each other forever, but do they really mean it? Especially with young adults, they are just too naive and sometimes they don't really think of it. When I think of this, I think of commitment. When they say such thing, it means being with that person forever. Sometimes couples think about being with each other forever, and when they do, they only think about the good things, like marriage, honeymoon, children, and their future house, etc. A lot of them don't think about this as critical as they should, before actually saying it or promising it.
The way I think of it, is a lifetime commitment where two individuals share the ups and downs of this world. Sometimes it means choosing that person as first priority over your most valued personal interests or goals. And If you really think about it, sometimes there are more bad things that happen to you than good. It's about being happy together no matter how bad the situation is. If you think of all the bad things that can possibly happen in the future like -financial problems, sickness, death of loved ones- and you can still say you are willing to experience those things with that one person for the rest of your life, then maybe you truly do mean it. I know I do.
Forever is such a strong word, and sometimes it is very overused. Many couples tell each other they will love each other forever, but do they really mean it? Especially with young adults, they are just too naive and sometimes they don't really think of it. When I think of this, I think of commitment. When they say such thing, it means being with that person forever. Sometimes couples think about being with each other forever, and when they do, they only think about the good things, like marriage, honeymoon, children, and their future house, etc. A lot of them don't think about this as critical as they should, before actually saying it or promising it.
The way I think of it, is a lifetime commitment where two individuals share the ups and downs of this world. Sometimes it means choosing that person as first priority over your most valued personal interests or goals. And If you really think about it, sometimes there are more bad things that happen to you than good. It's about being happy together no matter how bad the situation is. If you think of all the bad things that can possibly happen in the future like -financial problems, sickness, death of loved ones- and you can still say you are willing to experience those things with that one person for the rest of your life, then maybe you truly do mean it. I know I do.
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